Silly Thoughts and Philosophical Musings

Here's a collection of my thoughts, ideas and questions which I always considered rather silly to pronounce in public. They've rotten in my brain for a long time and now they demand a new home. What could be better than the World Wide Web?! Some of my thoughts might offend you, in which case, grab a cup of coffee and think deeply about them until you figure out what they mean! (I have a serious problem with those who try to decipher what I say in terms of what they want to hear!)

So here we begin. Silly or not - you decide.

Eating Before Sleeping

They always say eating before going to bed is not a good idea because it affects our sleeping patterns. And it should make sense. But... isn't it true that after we eat a heavy meal we feel more sleepy? This phenomena is observable especially in the afternoons - the "I need to have a nap" kind of feeling right after we finish lunch. So if you are on a holiday and planning to sleep for the next 10 hours... should you or not, eat before you sleep?

To Have Breakfast Or Not?

I am sure you've heard the following line many times:

"Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner like a beggar".

The justification for eating breakfast "like a king" is that consuming a heavy breakfast helps us spend the rest of the day with full energy. Really? I wonder. Because whenever I eat a king-size breakfast, I feel my energy is drained out. So I doubt whether breakfast is really that important a meal. And my doubts were confirmed when I read Harvey and Marilyn Diamond's "Fit for Life" who, too, think that breakfast should not be consumed except for fruits and vegetables.

Public Speaking VS. Conversation

When I was introduced to public speaking, I was told that the easiest way to construct a speech is to follow this model:

Say what you want to say (Opening)
Say it (Body)
Say what you said (Conclusion)

Public speakers swear by this model and I have no doubt in it's effectiveness in making great speeches. But can the same model be applied to everyday conversations? I doubt it. That leaves me thinking whether the mechanics of public speaking are same as that of conversations. While many of you would not have a second thought about it, I think the above model cannot be applied to conversations.

That might be one reason why generation gap fails. When elders communicate with youngsters, notice that they follow a similar model of speech I described above - first they say that they have something to say, then they say it in great length and finally they repeat what they said! And to us, it sounds all too boring and repetitive. "Just come to the point" we think!

Selfishness and Ethics

To me, we can be selfish and ethical at the same time! It's not selfishness but the wrong decisions made on the basis of selfishness (or on the basis of anything for that matter) which creates problems. "Selfishness" is not something we do, it's something we are!. So while we can go to fishing - we cannot go to selfishing (even my word document is showing this as a spelling mistake)!

Ethics, however, springs out from our decisions and actions. Simply feeling ethical isn't going to make us ethical just like thinking about food isn't going to satisfy our hunger. So when we speak of ethics, we are talking about our actions and decisions which will affect others.

In short, we can feel selfish and yet act ethically! So if you think you are selfish, congratulations! You are a human being!

(read Ayn Rand's The Virtue of Selfishness to gain a better understanding of this debate)

On being "Who You Are"

Here is a REAL hard-core philosophical question which pops up in my mind every now and then.

They say you should try to be "who you are". What if "who you are" is very dumb and boring? What is meant by "who you are"? Is it a set of traits encased in our genetic code? Or is it the norms accepted by our society? Is being "dumb" a genetic characteristic? Or is it a learned behavior? If it is a learned behavior, generated by external environment, is it justified to make it a part of "who you are"?

I posed this question to a person who has a bachelors degree in Philosophy and History and has earned Harold Parker Award for Excellence in History. And here's an excerpt from the answer I received from him:

"Who you are is partially comprised of what you began with. This nobody can change. It includes your genetic make-up, your family, friends, country, religion, etc. This is your base perspective what has shaped you into the Osman you are today. But it is not who you are destined to be for all eternity. You are free, unique as a human amidst all creation of which we are aware."

Again, if you are deceived by the simplicity of my question or the answer given above, refer to the "Nature versus Nurture" debate which, after hundreds of years, isn't resolved yet!

Thanks!

Thanks for joining me on my trail of thoughts! Hope the ride was not bumpy! Feel free to correct my "Silly Thoughts and Philosophical Musings" into something more sensible! Heck, why not have a collection of your very own silly thoughts?!

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A Few Helpful Thoughts on Memorial Ideas

There have been some pretty bad monument or memorial ideas that I have seen over the last few years. Having said that, I have also seen and been inspired by some really wonderful memorial ideas. Ask yourself these questions: What then makes the difference? Is it "my" personal preference that gets in the way or are some of these ideas really bad for a reason? Also, are the good memorial ideas really good for a specific reason?

In this article, I am going to address and answer these questions by what I will use as something I call the "template for success" with regards to finding and executing the absolute best in memorial ideas.

This guide to success was composed by asking a hand-full of unique questions to all kinds of people, including: partners, friends and (especially) clients. I am confident that as you read these questions that you will find them somewhat logical, if not obvious. Whatever we do in life as human beings, there always exists a natural tendency to want answers quickly. Consider these tendencies as you discuss these questions and search for well determined answers.

First question (1): what is the purpose of the memorial? Monuments and memorials can serve a whole spectrum of purposes. The key in answering these questions is to figure out and determine what the purpose of your memorial will be. Is it educational, motivational or purely functional? Is the purpose something else? I would suggest that you spend some good time thinking through and discussing as to what the answer to this question might be for you or your committee.

The next or second question, part of the template of success with regards to memorial ideas is: What emotion or emotions are you wishing to capture? Now, this can be a challenging question as human emotions are difficult to define. But, the more time you spend discussing this specific question with your organization, the more effective or even better said, the more powerful the reactions to your memorial idea will be in seasons to come.

Final question. Ask yourself the following: what is the memorial target audience? Some find that this question is the easier one to answer. Make sure to consider the following in your search to determine what the memorial audience will be: is your target audience made up out of people of a younger or older age? Are they females or males? Make sure to get this one right also.

Whatever you do in life, and whenever you execute your ideas, make sure to keep the end goal in mind. These questions and answers given to you above, can help you determine and carry out good memorial ideas.

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